(Closed) Who is marrying their first loves?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are you marrying your first love?
    Yep! : (121 votes)
    53 %
    Nope... there was another (or more) : (101 votes)
    44 %
    Other/I just wanted to vote. : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4385 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I said yes, but there was one guy before Fiance who I said “I love you” to, but never meant it. I just wanted to boyfriend lol.

    Post # 4
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    1347 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    He’s my first true love… but I guess I thought I was in love with my first, high school boyfriend. Thank goodness that didn’t last, though. πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
    Member
    1335 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I am! He was my first real everything–boyfriend, kiss, love, and now soon-to-be husband! Obviously, I was very picky about who I gave my heart to. I know it’s a little unconventional and it wasn’t my intention, but I couldn’t be happier with the results πŸ™‚

    Post # 7
    Member
    955 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    He is definitely my first love πŸ™‚ I didn’t want to say “I love you” until I knew that I was going to marry the person and I’m so happy that I waited for him!

    Post # 8
    Member
    169 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I was engaged before, but uneasy about it- turns out he was a cheater cheater pumpkin eater (he’s married with 4 kids now) LOL

     

    There was another man, a lot older than me who I fell in love with- but he wasn’t interested in getting married, or having a family, or even just being monogamous so I had to make that split… he’s a great guy, just not husband material.

     

    My boy is awesome, and perfect, he’s all the great things that all of my previous flings have been, and more- without any of the bad stuff!

    Post # 9
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    4765 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

    I am! He was my first serious boyfriend and my first kiss! πŸ™‚

    Post # 10
    Member
    3539 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

     

    My first love was the highschool bf. He has since now married and got a troop of three kids. Im happy for him we were so wrong for each other, I have changed alot since I was 16 to who I am now. I dont think we would have complimented each well now. His wife is absolutely lovely and there happy as so thats great πŸ™‚

    Post # 11
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    3285 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I voted no, though i am my hubby’s! =)

    Post # 12
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    865 posts
    Busy bee

    my boyfriend and i plan on getting married and he is my first real love.  before him i never had a relationship that lasted more than a month.

    Post # 13
    Member
    1280 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    my FH is defninitely my first and only… i have fallen for other guys before, but i’d never said “i love you” to them. in fact, FH was my first real, serious relationship. after nearly giving up hope on finding the right guy, all of my college friends actually predicted that the first guy i ever had a real relationship with i would marry. they were right!

    Post # 14
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    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    i had a bf of 7 1/2 years before him. it was a horrible relationship. but like the idiot i am, i did love him.

    Post # 15
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    3709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I will say my Fiance is not my first love…but he is my best love. My daughter’s father I guess can be called my first love. I didn’t love him enough to marry him or give up my independence so I don’t know how DEEP a love it was. I can honestly say I have never loved as deeply with my whole self before my Fiance.

    Post # 16
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    259 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    My Fiance is my first and last love. We didn’t date anyone in between, but we did break up at point point for a summer (we’ve been together for 8 years).  However, we both felt that is was a good break for us to grow and change and make our relationship that much better when we did decide to get together again. πŸ™‚

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