(Closed) Who is more attractive: You or your SO?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Who is more attractive and what would you prefer?
    I am more attractive : (107 votes)
    21 %
    My SO is more attractive : (81 votes)
    16 %
    We are equally attractive : (133 votes)
    26 %
    I would prefer being more attractive than the person I'm with : (71 votes)
    14 %
    I would prefer being less attractive than the person I'm with : (9 votes)
    2 %
    I would prefer being equally attractive as the person I'm with : (116 votes)
    22 %
    Other (explain!) : (1 votes)
    0 %
  • Post # 92
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    I agree with it being hard to compare between a man and woman… and we’re all pretty biased.  I mean some of the PPs who’ve shown photos of themselves with their SOs and said ‘he is’, I just had to think to myself… for me, she is beautiful and although he may be handsome, she is more attractive.  My point is that, attractiveness is something that lies in personal opinion (and there is no wrong) there have been some posters that have stated to both be very attractive and in my opinion they may be average whilst others haven’t spoken so confidently yet they are both extremely attractive… to me at least.

    I’m in love, and to me he is the most attractive man I have ever seen, he has piercing green eyes, dark hair, tall and has an amazing body and even though I tend to get more attention than he does (he gets a ton too!) in my opinion he is (but in his, I am),  so I think we’re pretty equal Smile but what is most important is that he is by far the most patient, loving, funny, loyal and overall the best man I have ever met (I’m so blessed!).

    Post # 93
    1162 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @spezia:  I think, unless theres a huuuge gap between the couple, it all depends on perspective. Im sure many many women would say @sbee21: ‘s Fiance is simply too gorgeous to ignore – and he really is a nice face to look at, but he doesn’t do it for me. I would say she is definitely more attractive, because in terms of girls I find attractive, she has almost every feature I would pick! (Relating to an old thread about what you find attractive in other women 🙂 ) I wish I looked like you sbee, too 😛

    In terms of us I would say Fiance for sure, but it depends on the day, the photo, whatever, and I know many people that say I am more attractive (including him, no surprise haha!)

    Id say when I lose weight though, I gain an edge for sure.


    Post # 94
    374 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I think we are pretty much equal – when we’re relaxing at home in our glasses and comfy clothes I think we look equally un-hot (lol!!) and when we both make an effort I think we look equally hot. I don’t think anyone would see us and think one of us was punching above our weight!

    Post # 95
    9756 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I think he is more attractive, he thinks I am. So I said we’re equal on the poll. I prefer things the way they are with him and I. It would be difficult for me if he was several million times better looking than me and all these women were hitting on him. And same for him if the situation was reversed.

    Here’s one of my favourite engagement photos 🙂

    Post # 96
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    @FutureMrsHallam:  +1, totally what I was trying to explain and I agree that in my opinion Sbee is more attractive, but others may say the opposite so all about perspective and opinion really.

    Post # 97
    2156 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @spezia:  I recently read that women who are with less attractive men are happier with their relationships than women who are with men who are more attractive. Thought that was interesting. 

    Post # 98
    873 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    My Mum always said “Never marry a man who’s prettier than you”. She was spot on….My Ex husband was a dead ringer for Brad Pitt, and ended up having the narcissistic attitude to match. My current Darling Husband is by no means bad looking, but I purposely chose a “regular looking” man who would worship me and feel lucky to have someone who may be a litte out of his league, and it’s working beautifully!!!!!!




    Post # 100
    433 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @Payless:  We also get the siblings or cousins thing a lot! especially when we wear glasses cause we both have black rectangular frames and that for some reason screams lookalike to some ppl lol

    Post # 101
    3669 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @bossypants:  Lol, I have just learned to appreciate the comment! My Darling Husband is pretty hot so if I look like him then I am also pretty hot Wink

    Post # 102
    3571 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I said we’re both equally attractive. I genuinely believe he is more attractive, and I’m pretty sure he thinks the same thing about me. Could be wrong, but that’s what I think. 

    I also think it depends on the day and how much effort we both have put into ourselves.

    Post # 103
    105 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Fiance would say I am and I think he is an absolute hunk! I would say we are pretty equal in attractiveness. We also have very similar attributes.

    Post # 104
    1228 posts
    Bumble bee

    Obviously I’m like every girl though and have some insecurities about how I look. Like my butt.. I’m pretty sure it’s decided to be the next kim kardashian butt without my approval.. Awful. My fiance is around 6’6, and everyone says he looks exactly like a certain celebrity. I could not even look him in the eye when we first met because I felt so shocked. I am sometimes jealous of how handsome he is! 

    I think that when a man is very good looking, women are more inclined to go after him.. Women have approached him right in front of me in the past!!!! Which is very brave of them considering I work out quite a bit and I’m around 5’11..

    I completely trust him, but it’s not a good feeling to know that every women ever is hitting on your guy. It sucks. We’re equally attractive unfortunately. But I think relationships work better when the female is more attractive than the man.

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