(Closed) Who is more excited about the wedding… you or him?

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: Who is (or was) more excited or "can't wait" until the wedding? You or him?
    He is, definitely : (7 votes)
    9 %
    He is, but not by that much : (5 votes)
    7 %
    I am, definitely : (21 votes)
    28 %
    I am, but not by that much : (16 votes)
    21 %
    It's about the same, I'd say : (23 votes)
    31 %
    Other? : (3 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    1358 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think I got excited about a lot more of the surface elements of the wedding, but we were equally excited to get married and celebrate. 

    Post # 4
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    2440 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    We are equally excited about the marriage, but he couldn’t give a flying *ahem* if we have a wedding or not. He’s only being accepting and encouraging about it because he knows I want one. 🙂

    Post # 5
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    252 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I am! Duh!

    Post # 6
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    3092 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I’d say him…but I’m more stressed out about it :p

    Post # 7
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    4606 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I am, by far. FH is excited about marrying me, but as far as the details and everything else, he does not care at all. He told me that his sister told him that he should just nod and agree with everything, then show up the day of. Lol. He’s been really good at that so far. 

    Post # 8
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    10453 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    Definitely me. He doesn’t like being the center of attention because he’s fairly shy, so we are probably skipping things like the a big deal first dance and garter toss. 

    Post # 10
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    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I asked my Darling Husband which one of us was more excited and he said he doesn’t know, we were both sooo excited. Then he said maybe I was by a tiny bit because I wanted it to be over after spending all that time on DIY’s. I think he’s right…. he forgot how badly I wanted the honeymoon too though. I needed that vacation!

    Post # 11
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    4606 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    @yanamari:  I WANT him to be involved, but I also know that he doesn’t care about the dress or flowers or the color scheme like I do. I happened to be on his laptop the other day and noticed he’d started on a wedding playlist 🙂 He likes music, so I know that he will be more interested in that when we start deciding on that, and also the food. I don’t expect him to be too enthused yet. But, FH has never really been that enthusiastic about anything. He DID say that he really liked the venue I liked and he said it was “awesome” when we went to look at it and it was his idea to put down a deposit. I know some brides that didn’t want their FH’s involved, but I want mine to be. I just know that right now he doesn’t care about anything I’m doing but I imagine the closer it gets the more he will help. And he always helps if I ask him. 

    Post # 12
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    3569 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Sometimes we are both excited. Right now I think he is tired just cause he taken on a lot oft task and I kind of checked out for a while. A few months back I felt like him. But most of the time I think we are equally excited and think it will be all worth it in the end.

    Post # 13
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    442 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We are equally excited for the wedding and the marriage! We gush about it to each other like 5 times a day! Lol

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    He’s the one that wanted a wedding more (personally, I would have just eloped or gone to the courthouse!), but when I tried putting him in charge, he didn’t seem to have any concept of a ‘cheap’ wedding, so I kinda took the reins. Plus I work less hours than he does, so I’ve got more time on my hands.

    In some ways, I care more – I’m trying to find ways to have a great wedding without breaking the bank and have spent a lot of time looking into those things (I now hate weddings more than Darwin hated barnacles!). I run everything by fiance, though, to make sure he’s getting the wedding he wanted.

    Post # 16
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    we are equally excited about marrying each other, but i’m probably more excited about the wedding itself, not by much though. he just hates being the center of attention (i do too) and doesn’t like planning as much as i do.

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