Post # 1
I was reading a post on budgets and salaries and noticed an interesting trend. Many Bees were listing their salary as higher than their SO’s. I am interested to see how many women out there make more than their partners.
Also, answer this:
Dose a difference in salary cause tension in your relationship? (Especially if the female earns more)
I make significantly more than FH because of the indurties we are in. It doesn’t cause any tension thus far, but just wondering if this is a new trend or just a small phenomina.
Post # 3
Darling Husband makes a bit more than I do. It caused a bit if tension for us right when we graduated because we had to discuss whose career would come first. We decided that I would follow him as he will always have more earning potential in his industry.
Post # 4
I currently earn more than Darling Husband (though he has a degree and has mugh higher earning potential) and so far it has not caused any issues in our relationship.
Post # 5
For the first time in our 7 year relationship, Fiance makes more money 🙂 We don’t have tension now, but when he was hardly making any money it did.
My bb is moving up in this world!
Post # 6
He makes nearly double what I make. Its not really an issue in our marraige.
Post # 7
@thenewmrsmax: My SO makes considerably more than I do. I don’t think it bothers him that I will never make as much as him.
Post # 8
I make more money. DH Is a phd student, and he gets his tuition paid for and he gets paid for 20 hours of work a week (TA-ing). Once he graduates, he will make a lot more than me, the starting salary for him is higher than where my profession caps off at!
It hasn’t caused much tension, we decided it would be best to combine finances, since we are a team. Neither of us spends more than the other, and I like it that way. Now it is my time to bring in the bacon, soon it will be his.
Post # 9
My husband makes more than me, because I dont make anything (ha) we like it this way.
Post # 10
My husband makes infinitely more than I do, I’m a Stay-At-Home Wife that does art for fun (so I’m not seeing a huge paycheck lol). I handle all the finances and we never argue about money. However, I was very clear about wanting to stay home when we first started dating, so he has always known that he would be the breadwinner.
Post # 11
He makes more money, but I am pretty close behind. It does not cause any tension. We are on the same page with our finances.
Post # 12
We actually make the exact same salary right now, but in the past I have made a lot more money for working half the amount of time he does. That made him a bit jealous of my hours/pay, but it was never something we fought about.
Post # 13
- Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast
One of us makes about 30% more than the other, but it isn’t an issue. It’s all “our” money. It all goes into the same pot to achieve our shared goals. If one of us gets a raise, we sit down together to decide how to best use the additionl income. If one of us wants something pricey, we sit down together to discuss where that pricey expense fits in our budget and financial goals.
Post # 14
@thenewmrsmax: before taxes and everything Fiance makes more but after taxes and his child support i make more…it doesnt cause any issues with us..hes pay a little more for bills than i do since im paying off student loan. we work together so no money issues with us
Post # 15
- Wedding: March 2013 - Callanwolde Fine Arts Center
I make more than my Darling Husband on base salary (about 10k) but he has the possibility for overtime and bonuses, so it varies. So far, it hasn’t caused any tension between us. We have talked about whose career will come first and we haven’t really reached a decision yet. Darling Husband works for a large international company with a ton of opportunities in the US and abroad, but there are very few companies that do work like mine. Thankfully, I would probably be able to get a job at DH’s company if we do end up taking an international assignment.
Post # 16
Right now Fiance is in law school, so I make more money. When he graduates, he’ll probably end up making like 3 times what I make, though.