(Closed) Who picked out your wedding band?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

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ladykatie82:  We picked out my ering together, but I picked out the band because it was the matching set.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

We picked ours out together. It’s not uncommon now for someone to chose their own band. Some people pick their fiance ‘s band as a surprise for the wedding ceremony.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

OP, It really doesn’t matter who picked out the band, there is no correct or incorrect way…. How about you both go ring shopping and choose the band that you both like, both agree to wear it…. It doesn’t have to be matching, as long as you both okay with wear it as wedding band.

I didn’t have an engagement ring, it was me that choose not to have one…. Me and my husband only wear one ring, and that is our matching wedding gold band.

I didn’t have an engagement neither. Hubby keeps talk about marriage, so I talk it with him and we decided to get married….. We went ring shopping together, and I told him to choose the cheapest plain band there…. He likes silver, but I like gold, so I choose the plain wedding gold band…. Hubby go with the gold so I can be happy, Lol!!….. So we bought it, I wear the 3mm band, and he wears the 6mm band, they are matching gold wedding band…. So I guess in my case, it is me that choose the band.

Wish you all the best in your upcoming wedding OP, and go ring shopping together, go shopping for that wedding band!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

I picked out a handful that I liked and he helped me narrow it down to the one. It was a really fun process.

There isn’t a right way, just your way. Have fun!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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ladykatie82:  I don’t think there’s etiquette for this, honestly. I’d say you should each pick your own – since you’re the one who has to wear it forever!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I picked out both my e-ring and my band. Fiance came shopping with me and I got his input but ultimately both were entirely my choice. We shopped for his band the same way, ultimately his choice but i gave my opinion when he asked for it. Fortunately we were on the same page in all 3 cases 🙂

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I picked my own.  Unike, the e-ring the wedding band isn’t something your Fiance may want to do because he wants to surprise you and “pop the question”.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

My fiance let me pick my own e-ring and I picked out my own wedding band. I am going to wear the wedding band the rest of my life. I might as well wear what I like. I am letting my fiance pick whatever he wants for his wedding band. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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ladykatie82:  we did it together, although it was pretty simple, i always knew i wanted my wband to match my ering, so there was not a lot of debate! Lol

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Fiance picked my ering and we picked out my band together, but he really just wanted me to be happy and pick what I want. I was toying with the idea of a plain band, but he liked the idea of more diamonds. that was really his only preference. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

My Fiance and I both chose our own wedding bands with the approval of the other person and we paid for eachothers bands as well.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: A very pretty church.

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ladykatie82: He chose our bands, but I wouldn’t have agreed if I didn’t like them ^_^

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

I designed my e-ring, with a little changes from his input, and I’ll be picking my band too.

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