(Closed) Who plans most of your “dates” in your relationship?

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
35 posts
  • Wedding: January 2011

he usually does…..but its usually the same ol same ol when i suggest something its usually something different or somewhere different, but i give him an a for effort..:)

Post # 18
5495 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I do about 3/4 of the time. He definitly suggests stuff sometime, just not as often as me.

Post # 19
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

My Fiance does most of the planning, it gets on his nerves sometimes that I don’t plan more activities but I’m working at getting better with that.

Post # 20
1279 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

that would be me. even though i have no free time and work twice as much as he does 🙂

Post # 21
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I do. All the time. He won’t even book tickets or hotels when we travel (even when he travels I do it for him!). In a way I like being in control of the choices but sometimes it’s annoying when he expects me to keep coming up with ideas while all he does is rejects all of them without suggesting any.

Post # 22
873 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

50/50!  We only get to see each other about twice a week right now.  Thursdays are always chill out night in front of the tv.  But we plan special snacks for each other (like I bake him a pie, or he buys me my fav Chinese beer).  We used to make a conscious effort to share the weekend date planning when we started dating.  However, now it naturally happens with either taking turns planning, or mutually coming up with a plan.  And then when we travel in Korea he does all the planning, and when we go to Canada I’m in charge of everything.

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