(Closed) Who said I love you first?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Who said I love you first?
    He did : (212 votes)
    67 %
    I did : (82 votes)
    26 %
    Somehow we managed to say it simultaneously : (13 votes)
    4 %
    Other...and I'll explain further : (10 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Fiance said it first. πŸ™‚

    Post # 4
    921 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    He said it first, but I was thinking it about a week into dating.

    Post # 5
    2548 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Meee, in a drunken stupor! haha

    Post # 6
    2600 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I did… approximately 5 seconds before he did, heehee

    Post # 7
    13 posts
    • Wedding: December 2011

    He did! While we were picking blackberries on my grandma’s farm πŸ™‚

    Post # 8
    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    He did!

    Post # 9
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    He said “I think I love you” first, and then I said “me too.” I’m not sure when we first actually said I love you because he was so cute when he said it that that’s what stuck in my mind.

    Post # 10
    600 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2006

    Bet you didn’t think anyone would choose “other” because it seems so impossible when there’s just 2 people but here’s how it went:

    We were at a concert and it was his favoritest band in the whole entire universe so he was very excited.  He accidentally spit on me while screaming over the noise about something so I made a face and he said “I only spit on you because I love you!” and went back to dancing/singing along.  So do I count that?!!?  I decided not to.  3 weeks later with no other I-love-yous I said it for real to him when we were saying goodbye for a long time and he said it back and then we’ve said it at least once everyday since.  This was 6 years ago!

    So who said it first?  I have noooo clue!

    Post # 10
    454 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I’d felt it for weeks but was determined not to say it first.  (Background with both his past relationships and mine.)  I was thrilled when he finally said it and immediately said i love you too!

    Post # 11
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    He did!  He was like “I love you”… “and all that good stuff” -it was really early and he just kind of blurted it out in the conversation so I think he was trying to …cover it up a little bit πŸ™‚

    Post # 12
    3788 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    @LaurenK0105: LOL


    He said it first. Two weeks prior to that, we’d been laying on a blanket watching shooting stars and I realllllllllllly wanted to say it. But I didn’t because I didn’t want to scare him off! When he said it those two weeks later, the way he brought it up was “Remember two weeks ago when we were watching the stars? I wanted to say I love you…”

    Great minds think alike, I guess? πŸ™‚

    Post # 13
    3049 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    It was probably him, but I don’t remember πŸ™‚

    Post # 14
    4355 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I said it first, we had both had a few drinks and were slow dancing at a wedding. I had been thinking it for a long time, and the words just spilled out of my mouth before I could stop them. I like to think that it’s because I loved him so much I couldn’t hold it in any longer. He said it back without missing a beat and said he’d been wanting to say it too (why he thought it needed to be a special moment and not just any regular old time is unclear to me). It was 9 months into our relationship.

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