(Closed) Who should be my MOH?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who should be the MOH?
    BM1 Sister in Law : (5 votes)
    26 %
    BM2 Good friend far away : (9 votes)
    47 %
    BM3 Older friend : (3 votes)
    16 %
    BM4 New friend : (2 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
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    581 posts
    Busy bee

    If you think your new friend could become a good friend in the future, I’d go with her.  The selfish part of me says take Bridesmaid or Best Man1 because you could use her for DIY’s maybe–but then she could take over.  It’s a hard one.

    Post # 4
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    105 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I’d say don’t title any one of the women maid of honor, and ask them to share the duties of planning your shower and bachelorette party.  ask someone special to give the toast, like grandma or a best guy friend.

    Post # 5
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    170 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I agree with engdom; there’s no need to have a Maid/Matron of Honor if you don’t see any of them in that role. It’s not uncommon to have only bridesmaids (or, conversely, co-MOHs).

    Post # 7
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    695 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I’m not having an Maid/Matron of Honor b/c it was too hard to choose, so I think that’s always a good option if you’re having trouble deciding! I’ve definitely seen brothers/men of honor, and I think it’s super cute too!

    Post # 8
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    77 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    In your situation I would just go moh-less. Given your descriptions of each Bridesmaid or Best Man I don’t think any are worthy of that title, sorry hon

    Post # 9
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    63 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Add ‘make the guy the MOH’ to your poll ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 10
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    966 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    None of them.

    Post # 11
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    1317 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I agree, they might qualify as a bridesmaid, but not as a Maid/Matron of Honor.

    Post # 12
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    248 posts
    Helper bee

    None of them.

    #1 not interested in you, #2 might not come to your wedding, #3 didn’t even have you in her wedding, #4 not super close to you

    They don’t deserve the honor of the Maid/Matron of Honor role and title so just go without and it will be fine.

    Post # 13
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    330 posts
    Helper bee

    I picked your good friend far away. My best friend got married and picked me as the Maid/Matron of Honor (I live a 10hr drive away). Since you have a little less than a year, I’m sure that would be enough time for her to make travel arrangements.

    Post # 14
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    1066 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Honestly in your situation, I wouldn’t have a Maid/Matron of Honor.. it’s just a title really, and what’s the point of singling someone out when clearly, there isn’t a reason to?

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