(Closed) who should give me away … advise please

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Newbee

Girl, this is definitely a sticky situation. The good news is that is sounds like you have MANY supportive men in your life whom you love, and who love you!

I think if I were you, I would ask both my dad and my step-dad to walk me down the isle together. Given your step-dad’s wishes, and to avoid putting him in the middle, I would talk to your dad about it first. Then take it from there.

Good luck!!

Post # 4
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1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

If your dad and step dad are good friends, why not have them both walk you down the aisle?

Post # 6
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44 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Its completely your personal decision…how you want things to go around…..but you have to consider both of your Dad’s wishes also……As you said your step dad is a wonderful man and ready for that then i would suggest you to have him….. but inform your dad also about it and
ask his opinion about it……
I cant see any reason why you cant have your step dad……..see, its your wedding day and if both of you (you and your step dad) feels good then go for it…..

Post # 7
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1091 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Oakland Manor

Could your mom walk you down the aisle? Or if you walked yourself? I think I would try and see how important it is to your dad. I wanted both my parents to walk with me, but my mom didn’t want to do that (she’s really shy), so then I thought I’d walk myself – but then my Dad was sad. So I just walked with my dad because it was so important to him (and I didn’t mind). Good luck!

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