- 4 years ago
Originally I was planning on inviting less than 15 people but someone recently told me that it’s good etiquette to extend invites to pretty much all the younger female guests around my age. The people who I’m not sure if I should invite are generally friends but not close friends (i.e. in some cases I might or might not have their phone number, so I don’t talk to them regularly outside of a party or gathering, I just see them socially sometimes). The bachelorette/stagette is local, if that makes a difference, and all the people in question are invited to the wedding. For me, I don’t necessarily want to just invite everyone because I don’t like being the centre of attention and the larger the group, the more uncomfortable I might be… so I only want to invite everyone if it means I might offend someone.
Have you heard of this etiquette rule? Have you felt hurt or left out for not being invited to a bachelorette party?