(Closed) who should move out?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Who should move out
    The person who was dumped : (3 votes)
    1 %
    The person who did the dumping : (138 votes)
    67 %
    He needs to tell her that they need to break the lease with the landlord if possible : (61 votes)
    29 %
    other... : (5 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    786 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I think she should move out.  I broke off an engagement a few years ago and I could not WAIT to get out of there.  They should talk to their landlord about breaking the lease so they can both figure something else out.

    Post # 4
    Member
    4352 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I think if neither wants to move than they should suffer each other’s company. But whoever moves out should not be responsible for rent if they are forced out.

    Post # 5
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    745 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    She could move out to do the “right” thing, but legally, neither is required to as they are both on the lease. He can go to the landlord and ask that his name be removed from the lease. But he would give up his right to his part of the security deposit, unless she really wants him gone enough to give him half of it.. 

    Neither should move out without removing their name from the lease. If the other skips out, they would still be responsible for the rent, and any damage to the place (in the event one becomes vindictive). He should not move out and pay his half of the rent. Again, he should talk to the landlord about having himself removed from it. Or HE can go and discuss breaking it.

    Post # 6
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    2750 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    She did the dumping, meaning she wants to leave the relationship, she needs to move out or take over the lease. 

    Post # 7
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    384 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2004

    in this situation she should move out and continue to pay rent or get her name taken off the lease, IMO

    Post # 8
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    14067 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @HeathenSwan:  Neither should move out without removing their name from the lease.

    Agreed.  I wouldnt leave unless I was removed from the lease or paid out for the remainder of the time.

    Post # 9
    Member
    289 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    She should WANT to move out. If I made the decision to move on with my life on my own, than I’d do it fully – not stick around to cause more drama.

    Post # 11
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    2750 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Well granted all fights have two sides and you probably only know his. 

    Doesn’t matter what the fight was about who was right or wrong.  When it comes down to it, the person doing the leaving, should be the one to move out.  Or if she wants to stay, she needs to take over the lease and all incurred costs.

    Post # 12
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    5296 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    she ended it, she should leave. 

    Post # 13
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    2548 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I dumped a boyfriend once because there was no spark. I also moved out 2 weeks later. I think she should definitley.

    Post # 14
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    914 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Aw crap. I accidentally voted wrong. I think it should be the person who does the dumping (that sounds gross!). But I accidentally picked the top one.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1471 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    She should move out, she broke his heart and if she is not willing then the lease must be broken! What a shitty girl 🙁 what a bitch

    Post # 16
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    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I would just leave as I wouldn’t stand to look at her anymore.

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