(Closed) Who talks more? You or your SO?

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

Ahaha, I’m laughing because Mr. Peng asks me all the time if I am talking to him, because I am usually talking to the dog, and I call them (both my husband and my dog) by the same stupid nicknames. 

I talk more, unless I’m upset or mad, and then Mr. Peng becomes the talker.  You can tell if I’m in a bad mood because Mr. Peng gets much more talkative…. he tries to talk me into a better mood!  And of course, it always works because he is so sweet! 🙂

Post # 4
1428 posts
Bumble bee

ME!!! Most definitely….’nuff said.

Post # 5
65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

He does, definitely.  But, he always wants my input and asks me questions about what I think, etc.  I’m more of a quiet, reserved type.

Post # 6
7081 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

Him, especially if he’s had a beer.  He’s a chatty Cathy.  I’m usually more quiet (except here).

Post # 7
183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I definitly talk more than my FH, unless he has had something to drink or if something is REALLY bothering him.  Mostly I "think out loud" while he tries to clarify his thoughts before articulating them.

Post # 8
756 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m really not much of a talker, so I would probably say that he talks more.  But if you asked him, he would probably say I talk more.  He also says that I’m good at striking up conversations in social situations with people I don’t know…I’ve never noticed that about myself, probably because in most social situations I can only think about how awkward I feel, lol.

Post # 9
461 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

ME!!! LOL we have a family joke that both my father and I were inoculated with a victorla needle , We’re both chatter boxes. I too talk to the dog , but i also talk for inanimate objects , as in the toaster "the toaster isn’t feeling very well today I think it’s tired for all those bagel bites you made yesterday". FH is more the quiet thoughtful type. 

Post # 10
105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Oh, it’s totally me.  In school, my teachers always told me that I needed to elaborate when I wrote papers,  but no one has ever asked me that while I’m speaking.  Mr. D could probably go hours without talking.  I could have a conversation with a goldfish.

Post # 11
397 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

HIM! by far.  I’m usually quiet.  We’re both pretty calm at home, although he still talks more.  And he definately talks more when we’re out with friends! 

P.S. I do think I talk to the dog more than I talk to him though haha! (Okay not really but you know what I mean).

Post # 12
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

It’s him!  He loves to talk about work and politics and music.  I can talk a lot when I’m excited, but for the most part- I’m a better listener.

Post # 13
796 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

Me, me, me, a thousand times me. I complain all the time that he doesn’t respond to my stories with enough talking.

Post # 14
813 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

Definitely me! I can talk to a doorknob!!!! Heee heee!

Post # 15
429 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2008

I think we take turns. He HATES when I talk over him, which is what I grew up with, so that is a challenge. But in public, he talks a little more, I think. Our group of friends is predominantly male, so he and "the guys" will get all excited and go on and on about video games or D&D, and the only other SO and I will sit and have girl talk.

And we both talk to ourselves, but I talk to animals more and definitely do the talking for inanimate objects thing (BunnyBlue, I’m glad I’m not the only one!).

Post # 16
34 posts
  • Wedding: March 2010

I talk more when we’re alone or around very close family and friends… but he is more interactive and talkative with others when we’re out.

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