(Closed) Who to choose?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

gotta include your little sister…I feel it’s the right thing to do.  5 is not massive

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Five is about the right amount. If you include one sister and not the other, I am afraid you will end up having family drama for a LONG time.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

As the yougest of 3 girls, I would have been extremely sad to not be part of my sister’s wedding. We actually decided to all have each other as maid of honors because we didn’t want anyone to have to choose! But this is our relationship together, and yours might be quite different.

Regardless, I think it would be in poor taste to not include her…many people will probably wonder why she isn’t in the bridal party! Five is not too many. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I think if you are very close to the other 3 girls, they will know and understand that paying for all of their wedding day attire is a financial burden. If you go with just your sisters, they shouldn’t have a problem. If you go with all 5 and still want to pay, maybe you can pay for their dresses and let them take care of the rest (or some other variation). 

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

When in doubt, pick the friends on the basis of how long you’ve known them. Then your decision is easy to justify.

Post # 11
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Helper bee

@island_bee:  

That’s pretty harsh to leave out only one of your sisters.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

5 is not too many. plus your younger sister could actually be a junior bridesmaid as she is still a teenager

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