(Closed) Who to have in my bridal party… help!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee

I think his 2 sisters yes, but not his sis-n-law or niece if you don’t want.

From my experience, you and your Fiance should choose who you absolutely want in your wedding. Others should understand.

Post # 4
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I guess it’s a matter of how strongly do you not want them in your bridal party? If you’re indifferent, then just have them. Does Fiance have a preference of who he wants in or out of the wedding party?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

having just one sister as a bm is fine. i would ask the others to do a reading or something so they’re included. and i love flower girls.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Have whoever you want in your wedding party. If you want a flower girl, have one. If you don’t want one, you don’t have to have one just because your FH has a niece.

You can certainly ask just the one sister to be in the bridal party. She can be the representative from your FH’s side of the family.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

do you have other friends you want in it or just the one MOH? Id say figure that out and then choose which sisters. u dont have to have the older one with the baby. she prob wouldnt wanan deal with the trouble. the younger sister might like it but if shes a brat than forget it

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am having both my FI’s sisters and his sister in law in our party. He said it did not matter to him but I think that they were very excited to be asked and I know that I want to have his fmaily completely included in or day (family is very important to us) I am also having all of his neices as flower girls. I think if you want to have them you should, the more the merrier if you ask me!

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