(Closed) Who to invite?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Unless he is a friend, there is no need to invite a vendor for the ceremony to the reception.

Are you paying a company or just paying him directly in cash or check? If you are paying a company an extra $20 would be nice, but if its directly to him then no need to tip. The money is all his anyway.

Post # 4
3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

No he is there to work not socilize. We are having a String Quartet for ceremony and cocktail hour. I wouldn’t mind them taking last 15mins to have a drink and few appeitizers but given that they will be there for three hours only and not the full day like my other vendors I’m not paying for them to have dinner.

Post # 5
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I didn’t invite my harpist to our reception nor did I tip her. I feel like I paid her enough already for 2 hours of work/driving.

Post # 6
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

He wouldn’t know anyone right? I wouldn’t invite him.

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