Post # 1
I am wondering if the people invited to the Bachelorette party have to have been invited to the wedding or not? We are having an intimate family and very old friends to the wedding and a lot of my new female friends who live close are not invited to the wedding. I kind of feel bad about not inviting them to the Bachelorette but I am wondering if it will be worse to invite them to the Bachelorette and not the wedding….so confusing.
Post # 3
I was originally having my bachelorette party closer to where a lot of my college friends were so I planned on inviting all of them along with my bridesmaids…however now that we are going out of state I am just inviting my bridesmaids (I have 6 of them). I figured this would be a great way for us all to get together and have some fun before the wedding.
If you want your wedding to be intimate it may be best to invite them to the bachelorette party so they still feel apart of your special moments instead of just leaving them out altogether…at the end of the day the decision is yours
Post # 4
@abales45: That I agree with. I think ikts ok to invite friends to the bachelorette party and not the wedding but a engagement party, bridal shower, and the rehersal dinner should only be for wedding guests.