(Closed) Who to Invite to What? Advice needed!

posted 12 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
55 posts
Worker bee
  • e
  • 12 years ago

i was wondering similar things…do i invite the significant others of the groomsmen and bridesmaids to the rehearsal dinner?  they obviously don’t need to be at the rehearsal, right?

Post # 4
337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

dboe – I would say don’t bother inviting the church coordinator.  Inviting the DOC you hired along with her partner would be a nice gesture but probably not necessary if you’re tight on budget/numbers.

e – Yes you should invite the significant others of GM’s and BM’s to the rehearsal dinner.  They don’t need to participate in the rehearsal itself but it’s not uncommon for them to attend the rehearsal anyway.  They should definitely be invited to the dinner though.

Post # 5
79 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2007

dboe, don’t sweat inviting either coordinator to your rehearsal dinner unless you’re extrememly close to your DOC and don’t consider her an "employee". Sounds a wee bit harsh, but true when you have to draw a financial line somewhere!

E, yes to the SO’s of your bridal party; they traditionally attend the rehearsal as well.

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