(Closed) Whom to invite to which shower? Why is this so difficult for me to figure out??!

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think you should just decide who would like each shower better (and how many people they would know aqt the shower).  I would invite FI’s mom, sister and sister in law.  It’s a good chance to bond.

Post # 4
Member
118 posts
Blushing bee

As far as your FI’s family goes…I would prob. invite them to the shower your mom is hosting. This would give them another chance to become better acquainted with their son’s new family!

Post # 5
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

If it were me, I’d invite the older women to the traditional shower, and keep the nontraditional one for your friends.  Not because of their age, but because they might feel out of place there more so than the traditional shower.  Keep in mind, for events like this, when you don’t know anyone but the honoree, you usually go into it expecting to be a lil outta place anyway.  And if you’re social, its no biggie.  So maybe you can use your discretion.  I definitely think you have to invite your FI’s family, I’m sure they’ll be thrilled to be included.

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