Who to invite (work friends)

posted 8 months ago in Guests
Post # 16
659 posts
Busy bee

pancakes11 :  No you don’t lol also be careful, some of these ppl at your work *might* begin to think you and your FI are being “gift grabby” by inviting everyone and/or inviting those you’re not close to. I know that’s not the case, but who knows what other might be thinking.

Post # 17
387 posts
Helper bee

pancakes11 :  i would definitely invite 2 if I m inviting 1 &3.

declining is their thing n inviting is mine.  I would say u can omit 4 unless it’s just 2  ppl left out.

Post # 18
466 posts
Helper bee

To be honest, given it won’t cost you anything extra, I’d invite all of them. 

I really don’t think you should leave out the older group, an invite isn’t a summons but by inviting them you are saying you respect and value them. They’re grown ups, they can decide for themselves if they want to come or not.

I was going to say leave out group 4 but as there are only 3/4 of them that might be super awkward.


Post # 19
3086 posts
Sugar bee

I would just say invite them all since you said for sure, 6 of them will need to be working that day and it wouldn’t cost you extra anyway to meet your minimum.

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