Post # 16
pancakes11 : No you don’t lol also be careful, some of these ppl at your work *might* begin to think you and your FI are being “gift grabby” by inviting everyone and/or inviting those you’re not close to. I know that’s not the case, but who knows what other might be thinking.
Post # 17
pancakes11 : i would definitely invite 2 if I m inviting 1 &3.
declining is their thing n inviting is mine. I would say u can omit 4 unless it’s just 2 ppl left out.
Post # 18
To be honest, given it won’t cost you anything extra, I’d invite all of them.
I really don’t think you should leave out the older group, an invite isn’t a summons but by inviting them you are saying you respect and value them. They’re grown ups, they can decide for themselves if they want to come or not.
I was going to say leave out group 4 but as there are only 3/4 of them that might be super awkward.
Post # 19
I would just say invite them all since you said for sure, 6 of them will need to be working that day and it wouldn’t cost you extra anyway to meet your minimum.