(Closed) Who to send invites to??

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Yep, they may surprise you and come and it will help prevent hurt feelings if they wweren’t invited.

Post # 4
Bee
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

Send the invite! One of my friends totally shocked me and came all the way from CA to our NY wedding. You never know who will decide to come. 🙂 Personally, if I could afford it and was close to the couple, I would most definitely go to a long distance wedding and just make a long vacation out of it!

Post # 5
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642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Send them invites, the ones who mean alot.  We are doing that sinc I am from the east coast, we both live on the west coast, and now we live in central canada where Fiance is from and family is. 

We are inviting my friends from the east, both our friends from the west because you just never know! And its common courtesy.  I realizre it can be expensive to send invites like that, but really whats a few dollars to potentially have them part of your day and save hurt feelings.

If theyre really good friends, might be acceptable to tell them…but if it was family they deffinately need an invite

Post # 7
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3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I say if you want them there invite them. You might be surprised by the amount of people willing to come. I been to some places I never would have gone if it wasn’t for college friends weddings.

Post # 8
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2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Absolutely invite them. Whether or not they come is their decision. At least you are putting the ball in their court by inviting them. 

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