(Closed) Who to Send Save the Dates to?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2111 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I sent them to everyone invited to our wedding including the wedding party. They should definitely be included!

Post # 4
7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@MrsMattsonToBe: I snet one to everyone on the guest list, including the Bridal Party. You can always hand deliver some, as I did, if you want ot save a little on postage.

Post # 6
642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I would send them to the wedding party.  I did.  And for every wedding I’ve been in I’ve received one.  

Post # 7
5271 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I have always recieved an STD being in the Bridal Party.

But in reality, I wouldn’t of thought it was odd if I didn’t recieve one, because we do know the date. Plus the Groomsmen prob don’t care so much about the STD. So I see your moms point 🙂

Post # 8
491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

yes i agree, send them to your Wedding Party.  and i’m confused as to why your mom is making such a big deal when it will save you no more than a couple bucks in postage, and there’s no reason she can’t send one to her friends as well as you send one to yours.  the only etiquette in regards to STD’s that i know of is that you don’t send one to people you don’t intend to, or aren’t sure if you’re going to, invite.  which is just common sense.  the Wedding Party gets an invitation too, why wouldn’t they get a STD? 

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