Who uses the withdrawal method?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Who uses the withdrawal method?
    no way ! it does not work : (256 votes)
    52 %
    Me, i like all natural with chance of risks plz : (137 votes)
    28 %
    me, complicated explain : (75 votes)
    15 %
    other ( explain ) : (23 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
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    3982 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Well, one of my close friends used it… and now has twins so… no. It is the worst “method” you can do! Pre-cum is VERY high in sperm count so you can just get pregnant with that!

    Post # 4
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    90 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    NO.

    Have you not seen 16 & Pregnant???

    Post # 5
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    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I chose “other” because when he doesn’t use a condom (rarely) he will pull out…however, I have also been on BCP’s for years, so that’s our MAIN method, no matter what else we do. I wouldn’t be able to just use the “withdrawal method” on a daily basis and keep my sanity. But sometimes we don’t have condoms, or we’re in the shower, or whatever. But, I’m very good w/ taking my wonderful pills.

    Post # 6
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    3522 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Good god, no. My sanity would take a serious hit. We don’t use condoms, but I’ve been on birth control pills for eight years and am excellent about taking them on time.

    Post # 7
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    3012 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    No withdrawal method here.  But we don’t use condoms either.  We’re pretty much risk takers, I guess.

    Post # 9
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    1314 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2016

    @AmeliaBedelia: same here! I’ve been on oral contraceptives for 4 years and we almost always use condoms anyways. When we don’t Fiance will pull out. I don’t really consider it “pull out method” though because if I wasn’t on birth control it wouldn’t be an option.

    Post # 10
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    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Yes, but more as preference than as birth control.  I am on the ring, which is really the main method, but I have some pain issues (maybe a mild allergy to him…) if we don’t use condoms / pull out.  The fact that it’s actually moderate effective is nice to know as a secondary method, but I wouldn’t rely on it alone.

    Post # 11
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    659 posts
    Busy bee

    Yes but as a backup with other methods. Our main methods are condoms or the sponge and fam. I figured all of those together would be almost as effective as hormonal birth control since I can’t be on it.

    Post # 12
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    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    There was a huge post about this before.  It is effective when used properly (both partners know and trust one another and themselves/ their bodies, are not using alcohol or drugs, are experienced.)  It works 100% for me and I have used it for 11 + years.

    Post # 13
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    2819 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    The withdrawl method ON ITS OWN I would not trust as far as I could sling it. However, FH and I do use a combination of withdrawl + condoms + NFP (in terms of guestimating the times when I’m most fertile, and avoiding sex then OR always withdrawing). However, we never engage in penetration without condoms, because I’m off the pill right now for health concerns, and my stupid GP doesn’t want to give me an IUD.

    Post # 14
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    142 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    At one point in time I used the withdrawl method. I’m lucky it worked. But my fiance has been fixed, so I no longer have to worry.

    Post # 15
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    780 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    MEEEEE!!!!  (LOL).  I couldn’t vote using any of the choices bc they didn’t describe me.  But we use it and it works for us.  I used it w first husband and it worked as well.  When we wanted to get preggers, we did. 

     

    *disclaimer* Not for everyone.  It does work for us.

    Post # 16
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    606 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    No. It astonishes me that people think the withdrawel method is an effective form of birth control. 

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