(Closed) Who would you NEVER marry?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
942 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

GreenBayBee:  Charlie Sheen, Eddie Cibrian, most Pro-Athletes (not all, just most, especially football players – and football is my favorite sport).

Post # 3
8704 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Someone who doesn’t want to work

-has a lot of children

-no car or credit 

-doesn’t care about their appearance and/or hygiene

My husband is in the military so I guess the safety thing is out the window! 

Post # 4
1267 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Any of my exboyfriends

Post # 5
606 posts
Busy bee

A republican. 

Post # 6
1263 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Someone with an addictive personality. Someone who is bad with money. Someone in the military. Someone who is not open minded. 

Post # 7
9188 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

ilovebacon:  lol you beat me to it. I’d definitely never marry a Republican. 

Also, an investment banker / finance type. 

Post # 8
1660 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

– Someone bad with money

– Smoker/drinker

– No steady income (goes from job to job)

Post # 9
1254 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Smoker/drug taker

Person who has cheated before (that I know of I guess)

Lazy attitude towards work/employment

Someone who hates to travel

Conservative political views

Someone who is bad with money



Post # 10
2057 posts
Buzzing bee

Someone who has, in the words of Tolkien, “a mind made of metal and wheels,” as that rules out a number of negative qualities that I could not abide in partner, like being a reactionary, being a souless technocrat, being uncreative, or being overly legalistic.

Post # 11
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

A Republican

Someone in the military

Someone who drinks a lot

A smoker

Someone who is not close with their family

Someone who has kids

Someone with debt (unless it was legitimate like a mortgage, car loan or medical debt)

Post # 12
1237 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I couldn’t marry a man who is not a feminist, doesn’t believe women are equal to men, has sexist views, acts entitled to male privilege, and who holds me to sexist gender roles or stereotypes.

Post # 13
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I don’t think I could marry a white collar worker. Nothing wrong with them, just not compatible with my lifestyle. I adore my trade fiancé, we probably drink too much, swear too much and not have much cash but he’s rugged and great with his hands and same outlook on life 🙂

Post # 14
3748 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

A conservative republican

a “man’s man” macho sexist type

an overly religious guy

Someone more than 10 years older than me

a smoker/frequent drug user/ alcoholic 

someone who doesn’t want kids

Post # 15
9557 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Most people?

But some of the groups would be:



people who work 80+ hour weeks all the time

People with socially conservative views (though my mom was a fiscal conservative and, thus, a registered republican, so I don’t rule out the whole party)

anyone who doesn’t like to travel

I kind of hate to admit this, but anyone with untreated psychiatric issues (my ex had untreated bipolar throughout our relationship and I realized I couldn’t live like that forever)

And anyone that was Bad with money!

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