(Closed) Whoa I just snapped and now theres no taking my words back…

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@HappilyEverAfter54:KUDOS!!!! yes!!! no you were not over the line (however maybe not on fb) but i loved what you said!!!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I think you probably should’ve just left it alone when she said she wasn’t coming. I understand your side of things though and it probably would’ve ticked me off too…just try to let it go and be happy that such a negative person won’t be coming to your wedding:)

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

Haha you kickass. FB is totally not the right outlet for this, but that girl needed a reality check- BAD.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

i really don’t think you were over the line…It’s ridiculous that someone would say that about a date a year away. You worded it very well. and it’s the truth! 

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I thik you were over the line- two wrongs don’t make a right as my mother was so fond of saying. But, she clearly was not prepared to commit to your wedding date on her calendar.

If she’s hoping for a better invitation, her calendar is now free.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh my god. The nerve of people! No you were definitely not out of line. Good for you! And she could have at the very least private messaged you to say no. But I don’t think there’s any adequate excuse this early in the timeline unless it was her wedding. That sucks it had to done in a public way like that! I would defriend her in fb and in “real life” haha

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Oh wow….how inconsiderate of your friends! I cannot blame you at all for reacting like that. Um, hello?! That’s why you were letting people know in ADVANCE. Your wedding should be the only thing that day should hold for those people. They could at least be positive and supportive on your facebook even if they’re not sure they’re coming. I’m giving a sympathetic ::sigh:: right now for you!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i dont think your response was a high point of your day – i would delete it if it was me

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@eloping: I wish I could “Like” this on Weddingbee.

 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@HappilyEverAfter54: Oh I would worry that too. Besides, I don’t have the kahunas to do that so soon anyways. 🙂 But maybe just maybe she will see the light and apologize for her unsupportive and rude behavior. 😉

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Other people that read it might think you crossed the line, because that’s how FB is, but I have to hand it to you….kudos for speaking your mind! And let it be a lesson to those that want to RSVP ‘NO’ nearly a year in advance on FB to your wedding!

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