(Closed) Whoops

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

I thought the Maid/Matron of Honor and other bridesmaids were supposed to do the inviting not the guest of honour which is YOU! I sure hope people come, if not, can you not just make it on another day before September 14, maybe next weekend, the 8th? 

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@happyface:  This. The person(s) planning it are the ones who invite people.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Yeah it was definitely not your responsibility to get the invites sent out!!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Yup, not your fault at all.  They totally dropped the ball on this one. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Ditto to what others said!

She’s supposed to be the host: plan the party, invite the guests, make the necessary reservations.  

I hope your besties are still able to make it!!!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Songbird29:  Definitely your girls dropped the ball here. they organize the event and that means they need to send out invites to people. Also IMO the Maid/Matron of Honor should be close enough to you to not actually need to request contact lists.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@drummerbride:  Eesh. My Maid/Matron of Honor is one of my best friends, but she is definitely going to need a contact list. She doesn’t know 80% of the people I’d want to invite.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@vorpalette:  My Maid/Matron of Honor is also my BFF, she would just go through my fb friends list for the contact info she needs if they decide to go for a surprise bachelorette, she would only need to do that for co-workers or future in-laws though and honestly I don’t think a bachelorette party is the appropriate place for those people.

My Maid/Matron of Honor is part of the same group of friends.

 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

They could have asked you for a list of who you wanted to invite (that is what my bm did).  I hope you still get a few girlks to come out and have fun.

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