- 6 years ago
Ok, so just like every girl one these waiting boards… I am unfortunately waiting.
I want him to propose when he is ready, problem is I KNOW THAT HE IS!
We talk about the future every day, we purchased a stone in APRIL, designed the setting in JULY… but no ring on my finger as of yet.
Waiting is beginning to take a toll on my mental stability, I am starting to question if he happy with our relationship etc… when I know that he is, and that he appreciates me a lot.
Sometimes I feel like subtle hints never work with my man, but straight out telling him is let’s say… extreme.
My birthday is 2 weeks before Christmas, and then ta-da its Christmas. If he was smart he would cover Birthday, Christmas and engagement ring in one quick and financially easy swoop.
We are big gift givers so I know that I will easily have more than half the rings $worth in birthday & Christmas presents.
This sounds so selfish but there is only one thing I want, and it’s not under our tree.
He finished his shopping and wrapping, and all the boxes are clothing – clothing sized boxes filled with soft clothing.
I asked him “is one of these presents better than all the rest” – he said no.Then I got sad and asked something stupid “so they are all clothes from the mall?” – he answered back that I didn’t give him a list to he did his best at the mall himself, and wondered why I was disappointed.
GRRRR… you newb. I didn’t give you a list this year, because the list would just be the picture of my ring – and that would look beyond crazy.
Looks like I am waiting into the new year…
Any of you other waiting bee wishing / hoping / thinking it’s a Christmas proposal ?
tell me your story 🙂