(Closed) Who’s Paying?

posted 9 years ago in Money
Post # 3
1565 posts
Bumble bee

That sounds like a good surprise, but I totally get what you mean about not wanting to overburden her. If you don’t think you can just straight up ask her without pressuring her to contribute more than she can, I would just plan to pay for everything yourself. Then you can accept any contributions she makes along the way which you think are reasonable.

Post # 4
2344 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I would just have a straightforward conversation about it with her. I think its wonderful that you don’t want to overburden her, but you also don’t want to insult her if this is something she really wants to do for you. Talking about what she’d like to pay for, if she has a number limit or just wants to handle specific things like the reception venue, will make things a lot smoother.

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