(Closed) Who’s stressing you out the most with wedding stuff?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Who's causing you the most stress in wedding planning?
    Your parents together : (5 votes)
    5 %
    Your Mom : (26 votes)
    27 %
    Your Dad : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Your siblings : (1 votes)
    1 %
    FILs together : (3 votes)
    3 %
    FMIL : (7 votes)
    7 %
    FFIL : (1 votes)
    1 %
    FI siblings : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Fiance : (5 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    3943 posts
    Honey bee

    Myself. I worry about every single detail, second guess myself, and generally just drive myself crazy.

    Post # 4
    3625 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    FI’s family, hands down. I think my Fiance would agree to this too.

    Post # 5
    8882 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    My mother. She keeps bringing up little things and can tend to nag, though she means well.

    The biggest stress is our rehearsal dinner. She doesn’t like what we want to do and it’s becoming a headache.

    Post # 6
    703 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    By FAR my parents! And I thought for sure it would have been fiancés mom.. who knew.. I just hope they all calm down

    Post # 7
    1390 posts
    Bumble bee

    FI’s family, for sure. Mostly because they either aren’t coming or have started suggesting they throw us a “Michigan reception.” We’re getting married in the Caribbean and having a full-blown reception in Minnesota, where we live, six hours from them. Yeah, because a third wedding event two states away is exactly what we need. Nothing like celebrating our union separately with our families.

    Post # 8
    5075 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I am driving myself crazy

    Post # 9
    2416 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I love my mom….BUT, we have such different opinions and everytime I disagree with something she says/does/wants, she takes it as a personal attack on her character. We just have polar opposite tastes when it comes to wedding-related things.

    Post # 10
    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Future Mother-In-Law… which is amazing because we dont speak but maybe once a month- few things that have annoyed me so far:

    1- shes trying to control things from 100 miles away- and even called up Fiance last night to yell at him for not calling her everyday, and then hung up on him!!         2-She bought a dress ( paid more then me on my wedding dress) then found out someone she knew wore a similar one last year- and now is returning it- lord knows for what                                                                                                                      3-she has people she expects us to invite- yet ive never met them and they live 5 states away, shes insisted we make our own rehearsal dinner ( Fiance is a chef)                  4- yelled that we didnt call her at 4am when he proposed to me, even tho it was not a secret                                                                                                                               5-told me that i CAN NOT use my DIY runner as runner at the wedding- i have to hang it up only                                                                                                  6- Doesnt like our choice in venue or menu..yet when we asked her several times to come up and look at places and try food- she refused

    and the last one- everytime she sees me she says “i know i know im just supposed to shut up and wear beige”

    Post # 11
    1902 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

    Sadly some of my bridesmaids have been driving me absolutely bonkers. Mom comes in at a close second though. 😉

    Post # 12
    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Everyone and everything has stressed me out at some point in the process so far. Finally I realized the common denominators in all of these were the wedding, and me.

    I am my own worst source of stress 🙁

    Post # 13
    7339 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    ME, MYSELF AND I!!!! Seriously I think I’m putting alot more pressure on myself than anyone else is. I just want everything to be perfect :s

    Post # 14
    894 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    One of my bridesmaids. I am 6 weeks out and she is saying she doesn’t know if she is going to be in the wedding now – she is just going to take things day by day – seriously…..

    Post # 15
    21 posts
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I’m stressing myself out plenty, but right now I’m more frustrated with some of my vendors/potential vendors! We have all of the critical stuff nailed down (venue, catering, photography, etc.), but I’m having a terrible time getting in touch with potential hotels for our blocks! 

    Post # 16
    2790 posts
    Sugar bee

    Strangely enough, my Future Father-In-Law. Love him to death but he has turned into a fatherzilla. He’s constantly comparing how much we want to spend with how much his friends kids spent. He also has started thinking we should invite children and that our wedding won’t be as special if we get married outside so we should get married in a church. I’m probably going to have to jack him up pretty soon if he doesn’t knock it off.

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