- 8 years ago
Okay Bees! So it’s now March 1st. Pretty much all the major holidays are gone. For us that are still waiting breath of fresh air and moment of silence for the non-proposals ***_________***.
I think many of the bee’s have a “summer” deadline/timeline. I don’t have one set in stone but that’s pretty much my goal and my own internal deadline. My SO has been out of work for 2 months now. So although I’m still waiting I knew there wouldn’t be a proposal anytime soon. He has an interview tomorrow *fingers crossed* that sounds promising so I really hope he gets the position. After an email conversation today he assured me that he wants to marry me. I know it’s killing him because his hands are tied right now with no income. He’s been making comments about working as much overtime as possible or even taking on two jobs at once to catch up and “take care of mama (me)”. So if things go as planned I’m hoping for a proposal within the next 3-4 months. That’s perfect because that would hit right at or before our 4 year anniversary. I think that’s enough time for him to save if he starts working soon. So I think a challenge is in order. A way for us bees to attempt to keep quiet and not bother our SO’s for a period of time. Although I wanted to get opinions before starting a new post.
April 1st/April fools day – this is only a month away
May 5th/Cinco de May – this two months away
May 31st/Memorial Day – this is 3 months away
I was thinking we could do each of them which would put us at a month at a time, like stair steps, to make the challenge easier. But if we wanted a REAL challenge we could go for the gusto and just do Memorial day. What you ladies think? Anyone up for it? Opinions please.