(Closed) whose name first in ceremony, help, help, help

posted 9 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Bride and Groom! Always =)

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

Proper etiquette has the Brides name go first followed by the Groom.  Plus if you have everything else saying your name first you should continue that.  After you are married, his name will come first as in Mr and Mrs…

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I have a question, initial wise…

The brides initial always is first, even after marriage … right?

_Brides first initial_ _Grooms last name initial_ _Grooms first initial_

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

It might not be traditional etiquette, but our officiant changed the order of our names throughout the ceremony.  For example, she welcomed everyone to the marriage of “bride and groom”, but then had him do his “I do” first, etc.  I liked that it felt more egalitarian to change it up, so it wasn’t always me then him.

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