(Closed) Why am I feeling this way?

posted 7 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 3
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5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

You’re struggling with the ever-famous PLATEAU!!!  Make sure you’re netting at least 1200 calories a day after exercise.  Change up your exercise routine.  Your muscles get “bored” doing the same thing every time.  If you’ve been doing spin classes, try out a zumba class.  If you’ve been walking or jogging, try interval training.  Everyone plateaus at some point, and everyone gets frustrated about it.  Hang in there, chin up lady 🙂 

Post # 4
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  • Wedding: October 2012

Hi Candykiss.

Family suc sometimes.  Im really lucky that i get to join with a wonderful family, my family can however be alittle ‘flippant’ in other words they never ask how the wedding planning is going – the wedding is in october and ive had the wedding venue booiked for months and mum asked the other day where we are getting married and that was only because my aunt asked her apparently lol and iv also been abit crook and they never ask or remember that i have mri scans happening, i have another one in May and I fully expect them to completely forget. My fiances family is completely different and I feel very lucky for that.  The reason im saying this is to show you that your not alone hun, just remember that you are marrying your fiance who hopefully is a wonderful person who loves you just as you are and you are going to have a home with him and the best thing you can do it just smile at that. 

All this hoohaa over one day means nothinig really, try to love yourself and your body because your going to be in it for a long while yet and if you have someone being mean or arrogant you have the right to say ‘I love me and I love my body so stuff you’. And literally say that out loud next time someone (even if its an FIL) says anything like that. I would suggest though that when you get home you tell your fiance what happened and what you said and im sure he will be so proud of you for loving your body.

Also, i totally understand the shoes thing and dont think thats being bridezilla at all as you have a good reason for it, but on the other hand being unsupportive of your man because he is loosing more weight is kind of harsh – its just a man thing that that happens – we have boobies so its harder lol. Danelady gave some really good tips for you hun so give them a try.

Try to remember though that your beautiful, try to be healthy and what happens happens… the thing that will totally shine in your photos is not going to be your arms or your flat tummy – its going to be your smile.

J

 

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