(Closed) Why am I (the bride) so anxious?!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I wouldn’t worry too much.  Just make sure you tell her how terrific she looks when she gets something on that you like. 

Post # 4
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Like PP said, tell her often how great she looks.

I have a similar problem with an apple-shaped Bridesmaid or Best Man, and I think she sees herself much heavier than she is.  She is way more comfortable in empire styles.  I also think something with rouching across the tummy area could be good (but also could be bad if the rouches are pulling).  My other Bridesmaid or Best Man is more pear-shaped and would benefit from A-line, so I’m comprimising and doing natural waist, but I still feel resistance from the self-conscious one.  Good luck to you, it might be some extra emotional work, but I think it’s so great you care about her feelings so much (and her yours).


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