(Closed) Why are these people so crazy!?!?!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

OH boy! I’m sorry to hear about the drama you are marrying into. Inlaws are a crapshoot!

Kind of weird that your Fiance is close, but then says a comment like she doesn’t need to invite you because you don’t talk.

Well I hope with time and your new marriage things will change!

Are they coming to the wedding?

Post # 4
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110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

@fusionwedding:  Am I reading this wrong? Your Future Mother-In-Law is only 31? Not that it changes anything…

 

Post # 5
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46331 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@FrozenFeet: I think it’s the Future Sister-In-Law who is 31.

 

@fusionwedding: I think at some point I would be expecting my Fiance to stand up for me and tell his mother and sister that he will not tolerate them treating melike this.

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

sorry- double post

Post # 7
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

hang on… is your Fiance planning on going to this party that you are not invited to????   that would not be happening if it was me – he would decline out of respect for me and our relationship

 

Post # 9
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1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think any serious action needs to be taken by both you and your Fiance to build a relationship with his family. This is not a “be the better person” bit but really, you can’t get anything accomplished if you don’t work for it as well. Has your Fiance said anything to his family about working on their relationship with you? This worries me since you are going to be married.

Post # 10
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is seriously just wrong. WRONG. Does he want your sister to come to your wedding? Then why would he expect her to not invite you to her thing? How would he feel if you said to him “Well I don’t see why I would invite her since I haven’t talk to her in a year.”It is super selfish of your Fiance to not stand up for you being a part of his life.  I wouldn’t accept this in the least. Either he gets you invited or he doesn’t go. You are suppose to be a team.

Post # 12
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I agree with you, if he can’t put you first, then you need to end the relationship. If not, it will just get worse as the years go on. ((HUGS))

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@fusionwedding:  No. No. No and no! He thinks he’s doing nothing wrong? I’ll tell you an eerily similar story.

it was my inlaws yearly family reunion this past weekend. Yet I haven’t spoken to the inlaws in months due to their disrespect of both hubby and I. (Long story short, I am the devil’s spawn and his life was ruined when he married me. They are nuts).

So do you think Hubby went to this reunion without me? No way! If he did, he would essentially be saying “Thanks for treating my wife like garbage, now let’s get this reunion started and have some fun without her!”

He said if he went, he would be miserable thinking of me at home and it would look to them like they can treat me like sh!t without any consequences.

I don’t understand how your Fiance sees it any differently. He must treat you as if you are already married. And his place is beside his wife when the family is being unreasonably direspectful towards her.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@fusionwedding: “U know where the door is”????

I hope you are packing as we speak. I’m so so so sorry he said that. I would definitely walk at this point. Big big hugs and PM me if you need an outlet to vent further.

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