(Closed) Why are women LIKE this??? (Warning: rant ahead)

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

She sounds like a precious treasure. *sarcasm*

I wouldn’t worry too much- there will always be women with different boundaries like this. Just smile and ignore, is my policy.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@Double_rainbow:  Wow. That would be really awkward!! I do not blame you one bit for feeling that way though!! I lost my ex husband to one of those girls at work (which is why he is an ex). And I have yet to understand why a woman would intentionally go after a man who is obviously taken!! If you figure it out, please let me know! lol

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Ugh. It’s the worst when they don’t know when to shut the girl down. My FI always insists that they aren’t flirting, and I want to smack him for being so oblivious.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I take it as a compliment honestly as long as there is no reciprical action. You cant change the other girls actions and as long as your SO is behaving honestly and honerably you are the winner.

 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

because girls are bitches.  I hate girls.

 

Okay not really, I obviously love everybody here so I dont hate all girls, but seriously they can be so dramatic and terrible!  Some women are just attracted to the wrong types of men, whether taken men or just “bad” boys.  Its sad, I wish everybody could just go for the nice guys and not create so many problems.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

some girls just like going for taken men. enjoy the chase. as long as he isnt encouraging id let your FI know it does upset you and leave it at that

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

That sounds awful – there are some very disrespectful women out there. The bright side is that she wants what you have, but can’t get it and you’ve got the ring to prove it!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Blech.  Some girls just don’t get it.

I second @MrsOliveBird‘s comment.  Smile and ignore is my policy too.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Double_rainbow:  Frustrating situation. To answer your question, I think girls like that don’t value or respect relationships because of whatever circumstances occurred in their lives to them or their loved ones, and/or they just weren’t ever taught otherwise. So it matters little to them to flirt with your man and for them to understand the implications and gravity of such behavior. They just have no filter. Incidentally, text messaging and twitter and the like aren’t helping; we are becoming more and more desensitized from engaging our conscience. But, I digress…

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think women go for taken men because they have such little respect for themselves, that they really can’t fathom respecting others. I say this, only from my own experience, as I had gone for a taken guy before. I was young ( not that it’s an excuse), and in a very weird part of my life. Looking back I didn’t have much self respect, so I really didn’t respect this guys relationship, or the people involved or being hurt. I defiitely regret it, but all I can do now is move forward.

As for this lady, shut it down is right, that is annoying, especially since A)She knew he was engaged, and B) You were right there. It almst seems like she wanted to stir the pot a little bit, and get under your skin. Don’t let her win. If your man is a stand up guy, you have nothing to worry about.

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

MrsNerdy first sentence you said….YES!

i can’t stand that, once they know that someone is taken they turn on their switch …their flirtation switch on that is…some people are just satisfied messing/ruining others relationship. Sad but true

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Well, at least the girl I had a beef with had the decency to be up-front and honest about it…

FI is a (very talented) architecture/design student, so he’s often asked by his peers to critique their projects and give his opinions.

A few months before we got engaged, a girl in his year (who he coincidentally happens to intensely dislike) asked him to critique one of her models. It was earlier in the day, and most arch students don’t really get to the studio until the evening and work really late, so they were the only two in the studio.

He walked over to her model and started looking at it, when she goes, “Would you ever consider breaking up with Rachelmichelle to be with me?”

The question obviously caught him out of NOWHERE and he was just like, “No?! I would NEVER do that.”

To which her response was, “Wait, really?”

At this point, he was pretty pissed, and was like, “Absolutely not. Why would I EVER do that?!” and promptly marched right out and left her in there by herself.

I dunno about you, but if I were this girl, I’d have just died of shame right there on the spot. Girl had to have some SERIOUS chops to just come straight out with it like that. Unbelievable.

This girl that works with your FI is probably just quite full of herself and thinks that any man would just die of joy at the thought of being able to get with her, which is totally delusional. It’s quite sad and embarrassing for her, really. She thinks she’s super cute and adorable, when really she just makes herself look like an idiot in front of everyone.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Double_rainbow:  i don’t know why girls have to do this.  and infront of you??  she’s a loser.  i am sure you have nothing to worry about.

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