(Closed) Why are women so mean?!?

posted 6 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

maybe she doesn’t like people – it may not be a woman hating women thing.

Some people just don’t play nicely with others

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sounds like a bitch to me! I can’t answer that question though, because its one of the many things I will never understand. Just know it isn’t you! I have some people in my life who just don’t seem to like me, no matter what. What can ya do, but keep on keepin on.

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hey you! 

First of all, please don’t generalize because only some women are like that, not most of us.  It sounds as though she isn’t a very nice person, anyway.  So why would you even care to be friends with someone like that?  You’re way too good for that.  Just ignore her bad behavior and chalk it up to her being a rude and unlikable person – that’s no reflection on you!

Smile  ((HUGS!!)

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Well, in my experience, when women act bitchy it’s usually because they are having their periods.

 

I’M JOKING!!!!! JOKING JOKING JOKING!!! Wink

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

well, it sounds like this *one* woman might be a little mean, but all women aren’t….

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I don’t want to say much but the place I’m at now feels like mean girls. Can’t wait to start my new job soon!


Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@PinkFlemingo:  Hahaha!  (You just had to go there!) 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Girls (and guys) who are mean like are not a loss, friendship-wise.  It may take a while to find the right lady-friends, but when you do, they will not look down on you like that.  Feel sorry for her…she is too wrapped up in her own world to enjoy the company of others.  That is a pretty one-dimensional life.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Legallyblondiebride:  Do you think she might be jealous of you in some way?  Sometimes when someone is mean it’s because they’re envious of something someone else has or looks like, etc.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Legallyblondiebride:  She has “Prettiest girl in the room” syndrome which pretty much means if she thinks you are competition she’ll be unpleasant or will do things within her power to make you less attractive. It’s not a scientific term but I’ve seen it happen more than once for no particularly good reason.

I blame it on residual biological imperative.

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Well I’m mean because I’m a B 😉 How long have you worked with her? I tend to take a long time to warm up to people, maybe that could be it? I wouldn’t reflect on it for more than 5 min though, if she decides to be awful thats her problem not yours.

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