(Closed) "WHY are you being a Bridezilla about this?!"

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think the area I was most bridezilla was when I felt like people asked me *stupid* questions. I worked VERY hard to write emails in a clear, concise way (including the website) so that I didn’t have to deal with any more stress. So, when I received questions like…”what time do I need to get to the venue again?”  or questions from my fiance like “What time do the groomsmen need to get there?”  it made me grind my teeth and I felt VERY justified.  I feel like bridezilla is like the *b*** word, its meant to make women feel bad for being strong or or demanding, but I DO NOT feel bad and you shouldn’t either.  So there!  🙂 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Whoa! Yeah, that’d cause a major freakout with me – I’m very particular about who I give my phone number to in the first place, so having on the invites going out to everyone would not be a great idea for me. I hope you managed to get them reprinted!

So far, I haven’t been a bridezilla (I think – fiance may have an entirely different opinion), but there’s still a few months to go!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I got all ‘bridezilla’ when I told a co worker about my necklace I was hoping to wear (a multi strand pearl necklace with a red brooch attached) she said it was was too much, less was more etc. *le sigh*

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I freaked out because I wasn’t getting the kind of chairs I wanted.  My mom was like is it seriously worth 500 dollars extra to have barely different chairs.  My answer answer was no.  The cheaper chairs were fine.  Lol.  I was seriously stressed out about it though.

Post # 7
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548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

That would bother me too.  I would say have the calls forwarded from your cell phone to his.

Post # 8
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412 posts
Helper bee

Doesn’t everyone invited to your wedding have your number anyway? That or your fiance’s? Hopefully you get them reprinted so your stress levels can drop, but even if you don’t, I wouldn’t stress too much about it. Those who would have called you will still call you, and those who would’ve called your fiance will probably still call him.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

One of my very few bridezilla moments (I had three – one had to deal with MILs dress, the other with a Maid/Matron of Honor who ended up not coming) was on the night before the wedding – I opened up the box of linens, and instead of the 144 pink napkins I ordered, I got 24.  I freaked.  Something to the tune of “will ANYTHING about this wedding go right???”  This was after a day of my sister not responding to any phone calls or texts, and finding out that the venue didn’t order tablecloths for the service tables, thinking I had.  BAD BAD BAD day for me – thankfully, my Father-In-Law asked me what I needed, and I was able to get him to go to the bar for me, and my pastor was able to calm me down.  So not a huge bridezilla moment, but still….

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