(Closed) why can’t there be 2 princesses?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5494 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

seriously WTF?  what is wrong with people?!  i have no words.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

She sounds crazy to be honest.  What business is it of hers what kind of wedding you have or who pays for it?  And only one princess per family?  What kind of nonsense is that?  I can’t imagine anyone telling my husband that only one of his girls can be a princess..and the other has to accept less.  Insane.

You are right that she may judge you.  But why do you care what someone that is obviously loopy thinks?   Until you hear that your FI’s family feels the same way, I’d just ignore this “friend” and her ramblings.

Post # 5
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

the big mouth is way out of line and you deserve whatever wedding you want and can afford – if she starts again i would call her out loudly and publically and ask her why she thinks that you and your Fiance dont deserve a wonderful wedding

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t blame you for getting upset, getting married can be stressful and sometimes it can feel like your being judged but that woman had NO RIGHT to tell you what kind of wedding you should have. I am shocked that she had the balls to say something like that. Also, i’ve never heard of a rule that only one sister can have a wedding. You have what ever kind of wedding you want and if I were you, I’d have a huge wedding and tell her to kiss my butt.

Post # 7
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340 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

She is probably just jealous of something. Just try to block her opinion out. Of course there can be two princesses!

Post # 8
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5921 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Don’t let one moron ruin the planning for you – lots of people have more than one child they help with wedding expenses, you aren’t the first one.  Just ignore her, and proceed like normal.

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would have flipped her off and told her where to stuff it. 

Post # 10
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5095 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Wow, that is not remotely her business. And what a bizarre way of looking at things! I would think that it would be important for me as a parent to give equally to my children.  WTF?  What a weirdo. 

If it’s any consolation, I’ve never heard anyone express this before, so I think your family friend’s way of thinking is not the norm.

Post # 11
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7689 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I didn’t understand all that-but she sounds crazy to me.  Don’t let her or anyone else bother you. 

Post # 12
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@MissKabers: oh thats so awful. obviously there are some jealousy issues there or potential ones. Maybe she is afraid you will one up her sisters wedding and people will talk about yours and that is making her jealous. Either way she should have NEVER said that to you …..so awful.

The thing about being a bride is i think you worry alot about what people are thinking. I sSTILL wonder what people thought about our wedding (was it to low key or was i too pretentios..) and it gets to you…you get worn down emotionally and that leads to crying sometimes. So dont feel bad that you cried..its normal.

and for the sake of all that is good…avoid that woman!!! it sounds like she is missing her social filter!

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

That’s just stupid.  I agree with PPs – she is jealous or something.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

*sigh* Idiocy.
Try not to worry about her, honey. She obviously is a little off balanced.

Post # 15
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744 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Don’t even think about it. When you come from a family with several girls, how could you not expect every single of their wedding to be special? I have 2 sisters, and I hope that their weddings will be as big, if not bigger, that ours! She is just a spoiled kid, ignore her!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

What a jerk face! I’ve never heard the ‘one princess’ sentiment, either. I think she might have pulled that one out of her butt (self-edited language here, lol). I’m sorry she was so mean, but it sounds like her crazy ideas are just her own, and your fiancee’s family doesn’t share them :(.

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