(Closed) Why didn’t I go with another MOH?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m sure that is not how you imagined your Maid/Matron of Honor to behave. You seem like a reasonable bride, so I’m not sure why she is blowing you off or acting unenthusiastic about your wedding. The only thing you can do now is look forward to your wedding day and remember that the most important thing is you are getting married to your love. 

Post # 4
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2247 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m dealing with similar complications.  I’m almost ready to just nix the bridal party, altogether, just because I can’t take dealing with this crap anymore.  Just keep your head up.  Your wedding is almost here and afterwards, you can cut ties with this girl if you choose.  I’d be ready to have someone stand in her place during the wedding, though, in case she decides not to show up or something.

Post # 5
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899 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I know how you feel. That really sucks and I’m sorry.

Post # 6
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2158 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sorry that this happened to you.  At least you have your other bridesmaids that care!

Post # 8
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341 posts
Helper bee

I also have a Maid/Matron of Honor I wish I hadn’t picked.. We’re just over a month into our planning and have 9 months to go before our day so its not like there’s a lot invested yet but still. She’s bailed on our trip to a bridal show, she bailed on our bridesmaid dress shopping trip I arranged 6 weeks in advance FOR HER and she bailed on a meet and greet bbq for our wedding party to meet each other. She’s made several comments about how she’s “going to try really hard to be there” on our wedding day (WTF?) and has made comments about not having money and she can’t help me with stuff because we have different days off. We’ve never had a problem getting together before so I don’t see why that’s an issue now. 

Anyway, I’m sorry you have to deal with this, I understand what it’s like and it sucks. I hope everything works out for you! 

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