- Little Flapper
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
That’s the text I received a couple of weeks back from one of my bridesmaids.
Um really… Is that tacky or what?
Let me give you a bit of background information.
The friend who texted me asking why she wasn’t chosen to be maid of honor,
is referring to the fact that I also chose one of my friends from Germany to be Maid of Honor as well.
Originally only my sister was Maid of Honor.
But since my friend is flying in and paying her own expenses from Germany to Texas, I figured the least I could do was have her be my maid of honor.
Generally speaking we are closer as well. We write to each other,send pictures, and email. She’s a very sweet person and the least I could do was let her know how important she is to me on that day.
There are lots of reasons why I didn’t chose my friend who texted me the rude message:
1st: She’s not very responsible or organized at all.
2nd: She’s never on time
3rd: She’s cancelled our get togethers on more than one occasion last minute
4th: She didn’t attend my engagement Picnic
5th: On a night out during the movies, she and her ex fled leaving my fiance & I to pay the bill
And alot more. I held my tongue though because I felt that if I told her this she would think I was trying to gang up on her. I just mentioned that my friend from Germany was sacrificing alot to be here for the wedding & it was the least I could do.
She just replied” Whatever. Forget I ever mentioned it, I’m over it.”
The truth is weeks have passed and she hasn’t even apologized. I’ve been losing sleep thinking maybe I am a bad friend after all, but after much thought have come to realize I am not.
What do you think bees? Am I being unreasonable/unfair?