- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
A bunch of times waiting bees will come on this board and complain about their current SOs and in the respones, we will find that one of us bees dated a guy JUST.LIKE.THAT.
I want to know your stories – why didn’t you marry one of your exes??? What was he like that caused you to get up and say, “HOLY CRAP WTF AM I DOING, I NEED OUT!” (or if he broke up with you, realizing that it was for the best).
For me, I broke up w/ my last ex for many reasons, but he would prefer to hang out with his friends over me. Not like once a month or once a week, but like.. all the time. Then it culminated with a bunch of other stuff going on at the same time. Like, he bought himself a huge-ticket item (like $1k) just 2 months before our anniversary, then told me he had NO MONEY to get me ANYTHING, not even flowers ON OUR ANNI.. but he had already received his gift (football tickets where I sat in the stadium FREEZING COLD, my toes were numb, and I don’t even like football, plus an awesome brunch on that day and some other little things). I didn’t even break up w him then b/c he begged me to give him a chance to make it up to me. Then, about 2 weeks later (still waiting for him to make it up to me), I mentioned how whenever he gets home from work, I’m outside waiting for him, but whenever he has a day off from work and I get home from work, he never comes to my house right away for the extra 3 hours we could spend together. I explained how I was always excited to spend time with him, but he was always more excited to be with his guy friends. That same week, he had a day off, I got home at 5, he said he would be over later that evening and didn’t show up until 9 b/c he was hanging out with his friends ALL DAY. Needless to say, that ended up in a huge fight and we broke up. If after a year, he already doesn’t care to spend time w/ me, what would happen after 5 years and living together???? NIGHTMARE.
TELL ME YOUR STORIES! 🙂