(Closed) Why do I feel guilty?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 17
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1409 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2009

Are you kidding me? You rode in another man’s car?? Just wow.. How low can you get? You should feel guilty and probably should go to therapy ASAP. 

Post # 18
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3075 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

You rode in another mans car… In front of his wife? Smh…

Post # 19
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2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@unknow123:  Why would you feel guilty?  I dont understand….You got a ride from a friend….?  Umm?  Am I missing something? 

Post # 20
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1530 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@unknow123:  that is a silly thing to feel guilty about – unless of course your guilt stems from feelings you are developing for your friend. 

Post # 21
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3025 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’m also really confused.  Or even disbelieving. 🙁

Post # 22
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2959 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

What does the escort story have to do with you being in another man’s car, completely innocently, and feeling guilty over it? Does not compute. Anyway, you have nothing to feel guilty over.

Post # 23
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

You’ve got absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. Going out to grab some lunch with a group of co-workers is completely normal behaviour. Unlike using prostitutes.

It strikes me from reading previous posts of yours that your DH has done something of a number on you. His wholly unacceptable behaviour has been swept under the carpet while you are made to feel guilty about something as innocent as a car ride. I’d be asking myself if the balance of things hasn’t got totally skewed in your relationship if I were you and I’d also be asking myself why I was so forgiving of this man’s fondness for prostitutes. 

 

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@unknow123:  LOL do you have a crush on this guy or something?  You rode in another person’s car- who happened to be male, along with another femaie, correct?

The only way I could see someone being guilty over this is either because you think you might be interested in this guy….or because you’ve made a promise to your husband that yo will never ride in another male’s car?  And now you feel guilty because you broke that promise?

 

 

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@unknow123:  It sounds to me like you’re afraid to give him any “ammo” to justify his own actions.  You are not.  You were completely honest and did not do anything wrong.

Post # 27
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@unknow123:  Why would your husband be upset that you rode in another man’s car?  I honestly want to know.

Post # 28
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Unless “in another man’s car” is a euphemism for “another man’s penis”, you are severely overreacting.

Post # 29
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841 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@unknow123:  Explain how the part about the escorts is connected to going out for lunch.

Post # 30
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Honey bee

What? Seriously? Unless you were actually riding the other man, there is nothing to be concerned about.

Post # 31
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7643 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You went out to lunch and a male coworker drove…so? I don’t get it.

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