- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Well, I know why, because I love to make sure everyone is happy. Originally, I had planned to have the BM’s and I head to my dad’s cabin for a night for basically my bachelorette since nothing was planned. The more I thought about it this week, the more I don’t want to do that. 2 hours there and back for a 24 hours stay, can’t leave til at the earliest 6:30 on Friday. I am the only one that knows how to drive the boat, which means I wouldn’t be able to drink at all. And then throw in the uncovering the boat, cleaning the house back up fun-ness that has to occur. We would be missing one BM as well because she will be on vacay.
So I just sent a text to 3 of the BM’s asking if switching weekends and just doing a dinner/bar type night would be okay with them so my other BM can be there and it’s more fun/relaxing than the lake when I would be “in charge” since I am the only one that’s knows the “ropes”. I haven’t heard back yet but I feel so guilty asking to change the plans for my OWN bachelorette that I planned! I hate feeling this way butI feel like I would be happier doing something else.