(Closed) Why do I feel like a married single mother?!

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

why is he eating dinner in bed instead of with the family?  why are you waiting on him hand and foot?  does he work like 14 hour days or something?  does he travel extensively for work?

if you want to change the situation, you’ll have to change your actions.  i used to do ALL the cleaning around my house – everything.  Then i stopped doing the things i wanted help with.  i asked initally, and i started to feel like i was badgering him, so i stopped asking.  so i stopped asking and then i stopped doing.  now, hubs mops the floors, wipes off the tables, takes out the garbage, etc…  hell, he is even cooking once in a while.  i had to stop waiting on him to realize himself that he should be doing more around the house.  instead, i told him exactly what i w anted and stopped doing all the work myself.  life and our relationship has improved 100%. 

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