Post # 1
About a year into the relationship with my current fiancee, I squirted in bed FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE. He had never seen it before either and I think it’s a BIG turn on for him. It was an amazing feeling and ever since that day I squirt. Not every time we have sex, but about once a week on average. I guess he knows my body inside out and knows every angle/ position to make that happen..
It’s annoying though at times because sometimes we have to stop during sex just to grab a towel and it stops the flow…Once, we prepared the towels beforehand but then I didn’t squirt. Typical.
And after sex, i always want to pee (especially days when I squirt)
Does anyone know what makes us squirt????
Post # 3
I’m not sure what causes it but it’s pretty normal. Like yours, my husband LOVES it! I never experienced it until him either.
Here’s a tip… go to Christmas Tree Shops or Bed, Bath and Beyond and get one of those microfiber dish drying mats (you know, the kind that absorb 4x as much liquid as a towel) and put that under you! It works AWESOME! (I was so proud of myself when I came up with this one!) Once in a while, I squirt enough for it to soak through but it really saves the bed!
Post # 4
That’s interesting. I’ve never squirted before! I’d be interested in knowing in how to make that happen lol.
Post # 5
So, I listen to a lot of Love Line with Doctor Drew, lol! Essentially squirting is just female ejaculation. Not everyone does it, but it’s not abnormal in any way. Kudos to you Fiance for knowing your body so well! LOL!
Post # 6
I dont know what it is. I have never squirted before I met Fiance, but not almost every time we have sex, I squirt. It is an amazing feeling so Im glad that he knows how to make it happen lol. But Im not sure what causes it. Anyways we too have towels. As much as its awesome its also messy and that sucks. So we have designated playtime towels lol They are always put away in the basket under our bed. They are different colored than our bathroom towels so Fiance cant get confused while doing laundry lol
Post # 7
Magic and luck.
I actually was just listening to a fun podcast yesterday with Sex Nerd Sandra where they got into discussing g-spots and female ejaculations: http://www.nerdist.com/2011/08/sex-nerd-sandra-3-g-spot-tmi/
Post # 8
I do. We just deal with the wet spot.
Post # 9
I squirt as well, not every time we do it but it does happen. He usually have to hit the spot from a certain angle before it can happen. I haven’t learned to control it myself, so it’s not like I can do it at will or anything.
Post # 10
It happens to me about once a month or so. I never squirted until I gave birth. I think things got “realligned” in there. My Fiance absolutely goes crazy when it happens and I eventually have to tell him to stop because I can’t breathe from all the orgasming. lol
Post # 11
I only do it when I use a vibrator. My husband hates it. He thinks it is gross because afterwards I have to usually change the sheets and it is a big pain in the ass. We always clean up afterwards both of us take a shower and we always have sex on the top sheet so we won’t get the bed dirty. Yes this is both of us. We are clean freaks.
Post # 11
blldgpuppy: this sounds just like my boyfriend and I . I make it a habit to keep a towel around sometimes two towels to avoid getting the bed dirty.
Post # 12
When my SO and I firts started to date I had the hardest time orgasming. Then it got to the point I would orgasm 4-12 times during sex. Lately 1-2 of those orgasms have been squirting. I love it. He LOOOOVES it! Getting to know each other so well personally and intimately has made sex so much better!
I try to have a towel, but sometimes it comes out of no where. I make him sleep on the wet spot (“it’s your fualt” I tell him lol) and I change the sheets in the morning.
Post # 13
Kaites4: What’s different with him that he can make you orgasm so much?
Post # 14
I honestly don’t know. We love each other very much, which has made the sexy better the longer we’ve been together. We really know what each other likes. We also communicate a lot during sex and also not during sex. I’ll tell him what I love and dont love. We listen to each other. I use a vibrator when we do doggy but I’ve squirted on top more often than any other way and it’s too awkward to use a vibrtor while I’m on top.
I REALLY have to be turned on too. If it’s one of those nights when we have sex and it’s more for him than me (not that I don’t enjoy myself lol), I’ll only come once maybe twice if at all. I do watch porn sometimes to turn myself on. But I prefer to watch it on my own. When we watch it together he gets turned on much quicker and starts touching me sooner than I’m ready. I’ll ask him to stop and he does. But sometimes it’s just easier for me to get turned on without him knowing (kind of a turn on for me to be watching porn when he’s in the next room snd he has no idea). It’s also easier for me to get into the mood without him next to me waiting for me to get turned on lol. The pressure can be much.
So writing this has made me realize that it’s when I’m really turned on that I have the best orgasms haha. Not rocket science, but sometimes I’m just not as turned on as him and it does make a difference.
Hope this helps! 🙂