Why do married women with/without children feel so bad? You have it all!

posted 2 years ago in Married Life
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Okay? Just because someone is married doesn’t mean their life is perfect and full of rainbows & butterflies. Life is hard and being married doesn’t negate that. This is a strange post.

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

My being married has no bearing on whether I feel bad or sad sometimes.  

Post # 4
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1694 posts
Bumble bee

Is this a serious question? There’s more to life than being married.

Post # 5
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1369 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2005 - A Castle

I guess you’ve never dealt with death, job loss, being broke AF, having a hospitalized child or anything like that. 

Post # 7
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813 posts
Busy bee

Wait…. I’m not allowed to feel anything other than happiness just because I’m married and have a kid? 

Shit. I’ve been doing this wrong. 

Post # 9
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Worker bee

Because the grass is always greener on the other side bee. Try to enjoy your life as it is. There will ALWAYS be things to complain about and want.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

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deannamarie :  lol Me too!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Was this post written in 1958?

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Yeah man, I often sit around wondering just how Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan could ever even for a second feel like they’re having a down day. I mean come on, they’re billionaires, happily married, and have 2 beautiful daughters! How dare they ever have a single moment of feeling down in the dumps?! 😡

/s

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

I totally agree with you… once you are married and have children the only feeling you are EVER allowed to feel is total blissed out angelic happiness. If you feel anything else, regardless of circumstance, you are obviously WRONG. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

Well, this is random.

However, you don’t get to devalue someone else’s feelings just because they may have xyz that you put on a pedestal. That’s not how it works.

 So, let people live their lives and process through their things while you do the same for yours. You want xyz? Great, I sincerely hope you get it. However, your need for other people to be happy whom already have those things is pretty petty and self absorbed. Focus on you and work on you. You aren’t in their shoes.

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