(Closed) Why do my inlaws leave me out

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

There’s no good explanation – the most likely one is that they don’t like you. Don’t waste your time putting a bunch of effort into that relationship. If they wasn’t to exclude you, whatever but you don’t have to make an extra effort because they are rude.

Post # 3
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Newbee

The pictures are one thing, but deleting and blocking you on social media definitely sounds like they have a problem with you. Have you discussed this with your SO? If it bothers you that you’re being excluded you could ask him to talk to them and see if there’s a reason they’re acting this way. 

Maybe there’s something you can do to repair things… or maybe they’re just sucky people and it’s not worth trying to have a relationship. Either way I’d ask your husband what he thinks about it.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper

You tell us. What is your relationship like when you are with them? Do they treat you well otherwise? Is there anything about you or your background they don’t like? 

The photos might be a coincidence, but deleting you and blocking you from social media is probably not  My guess is one of two things.

They don’t approve and are hoping you will get frustrated enough with their behavior that it will eventually contribute to a break up. 

They think you overshare on FB or disagree with the kind of things you post. 

Is there any good reason your H hasn’t gotten to the bottom of this? 

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

Is your username your real full name? You might want to change that, especially with a topic like this. I haven’t been on these boards long enough to know how to do that but one of the other bees may know how that can be done. 

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper

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Kristin Lee Whitehead Moore :  

I just noticed your other post – it too is contains much detail you might want to be a bit careful of oversharing . Especially if that is not only your real name but also your real picture .

It may be that things like this have caused his family to pull away from you, fearing   that if they share anything with you , you  may make it far too public?  

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