(Closed) Why do people ask for advice when they already made up their mind?! (long vent)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@misssydneyj:

oh man! A tale of two personality types. 

This is great that you are discussing these things before your marriage. Good that you let him no how you feel about asking for advice when you already know what you want and also your expectations for life together. 

Personally I view his text as putting the feelers out for your reaction to his desired behavior rather than really asking you for advice he doesn’t want to take

Post # 4
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Honey bee

If he really cared about the class, he would go. Maybe it’s just too much for him right now, working full time and taking 2 classes. It’s hard..Ive been there too. Maybe he took on too much and he’s embarassed to admit it?

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I mean with the cost of education these days I dont understand why he always wants to skip a class that he’s paid for.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@misssydneyj: agreed. I think the ” its only one hour” makes it even more tempting to skip! lol

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