(Closed) Why do people break-up this way??

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

that guy is terrible, she can do way better!

i have been broken up with via text message, but it didn’t involve any horrible words.

my first boyfriend broke up with me with a comment on my public myspace profile, and said all this horrible crap. i certainly learnt my lesson and changed it to private after that! so not only could all my friends see, EVERYONE could see it.

i hope your friend finds someone who deserves her and treats her better 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Thats so horrible! That is just so cowardly and immature. She will find someone better that she deserves!

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Ugh, clearly she’s better off without him.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

That’s crap. Some guys just need to grow a pair. Like my ex who one day decided that we were done and I needed to move out. End of discussion. And then changed the locks and held my stuff hostage midway through my move, because I happened to pack a kitchen knife that he just had to have. No lie. LOL it was a mess.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Because some guys aren’t man enough to own up to their decisions, and deal with the aftermath. Instead, they’d rather be a dickhead about it, in hopes that the girl is so repulsed, he never has to deal with her again. Then, he can make himself believe SHE was the problem, not him, and he won’t feel bad anymore

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@catnip:  I totally understand not wanting to divulge anymore information. Maybe when you talk to her, tell her that anytime she starts feeling bad/sad/remorseful/whatever, just think of that text and picture, and get pissed off instead. He doesn’t deserve her hurt feelings, only her angry feelings. She needs to get good and mad, and then forget about him. He certainly isn’t worth anymore of her time

Post # 11
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Busy bee

@catnip:  if most of their daily communication was by text, it may have just been his routine way to talk to her.

phone, text, face-to-face, it will ALL suck and it’s never a lovely story.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2006

Depressing. I’m so glad I’m not out there right now.

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

That’s terrible. People can be such jerks. What you said about making major decisions the days before, and then just being so mean a few days later, that baffles me too. One of my very best friends was dating this guy (whom I did not like for so many reasons and told her as much (as nicely as I could)) and they were house hunting, talking about kids, marriage, etc. She talked to him while she was at work about what he wanted her to pick up for dinner that night (they were practically living together), and when she got home a few hours later, all his stuff was gone, and there was a note that only said something along the lines of “I can’t do this” and a stack of money. He wouldn’t return he calls or texts, nothing. She eventually talked to him like two months later when he asked her to wait for him (uhhh no), and then she found out a couple months after that that he was engaged to someone else. I don’t think she ever really got closure on the whole thing, but the whole situation was just ridiculous.

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