Why do we argue so much more in an LDR? (sad, vent)

posted 7 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 31
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664 posts
Busy bee

Maybe you should try not talking on the phone everyday? I personally feel it’s a bit excessive. I am also in a long distance relationship (first 2.5 years about 100 miles and for the past 2 years 1000 miles apart)

I feel as if our relationship ship grew after I moved out of state. We are forced to talk so usually Fiance and I talk about our careers, dreams, politics, wishes, etc. We only talk about twice a week. One night well video chat and do it for about 2 hours and well usually talk for about 20 minutes Saturday morning before doing our own thing. 

I think it’s important to focus on yourself right now as well. I can’t imagine getting anything done if I had to talk on the phone every night for that long. Plus, I look forward to our phone calls cos usually by then we have so much to talk about! 🙂

LDR is hard. I think if y’all can get through this then y’all can get through anything 🙂 good luck

Post # 32
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664 posts
Busy bee

Whoops. I also didn’t realize this was an old threat. Excuse my lost 😄

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