(Closed) why does she think she is invited to our rehearsal? grr

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 18
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

BRAVO FMIL! 😉

Post # 19
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Haha! That’s great. I agree though that she has no reason to be invited, anyway. Glad she’s not coming so you can put your mind at ease!! 🙂

Post # 20
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011 - Anthony’s Fine Dining

Yay!  Sounds like you’ve got a great Future Mother-In-Law 🙂

Post # 21
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

HAHA! Glad Future Mother-In-Law set her straight!

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I actually got a call from my Future Mother-In-Law & she was like, do you mind if my sister comes to the rehersal dinner.  Her daughter is one of my bridesmaids & they are coming from out of town, plus my fiance’s parents are paying for the dinner, so I said sure.  Hope they aren’t offended when they don’t receive a gift though… they didn’t do anything special for me!

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

@Ella1978…lol..I totally agree regarding gifts at this point…I am so done trying to be nice!

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

@teeleaf:  Glad to hear that your Future Mother-In-Law took care of it!  If FI’s aunt is offended, well, she can deal with her sister 🙂

Post # 26
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Bee Keeper

So, I know that you don’t want them to fight before the wedding, but your Future Mother-In-Law has a point! Was she invited to her niece’s rehearsal dinner? If not, then heck with it…let your Future Mother-In-Law deal with it! Her responses are great By The Way…

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

@ teeleaf; You’ve already made your position on the subject clear. Just step back from this one and let Future Mother-In-Law handle it! They’ve been sisters their whole lives, it sounds like they know how to handle each other.

Post # 28
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Helper bee

I had some issues with my FI’s aunt too. We had a baby before being married and his aunt showed up to my baby shower and on the way out when everybody was saying “congrats” to us, his aunt came up and said (right in front of me) “Just dont let it happen again” I was livid. I still dont let those people come around. Not to birthday parties or bar-b-ques or anything. Luckily we moved to another state and I dont have to worry about it. I dont know if I could stand having her at my wedding or rehersal. You are in a hard situation. I just feel that if they dont agree with they lifestyle we live and want to make rude comments about it then they shouldnt be a part of our activities. I do hold a grudge though.

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